In my opinion, despite claiming to be "scientific" about its processes, PUA completely misses the boat on science. Stop acting like a social robot and create some goddamn romance! As is connecting with women on an emotional level. As is making yourself vulnerable to rejection and judgment. Sex and women is a side effect of becoming an emotionally competent and sexually confident man, not the cause of it. You become an attractive individual by investing in yourself rather than in the women you are pursuing. You could say the dumbest thing in the world, but if you're a cool guy, it won't matter, in fact it will likely make her like you even more.
You can have the coolest line in the world, but if you're a loser and are desperate to impress her, you will kill any attraction.
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The skill is sorting through this emotional garbage to free yourself up to act openly and confidently no matter who you're with.Īttraction is not about what you say or do, but about who you are. There's no skill to it.ĭon't believe me, then ask yourself this: Why does a first date with a hot woman FEEL so much more complicated and stressful than dinner with a business associate or friend of friend? When confronted with sexual situations, a lot of our emotional baggage, our shame, our insecurities, our poor self image, this stuff all comes roaring out of us. I like to say if you can walk and you can talk then you can pick up a hot girl. Seduction is an emotional process, to become good at seduction is to become an emotionally healthy individual who attains social and sexual confidence. When it comes to dating and pick up advice, here's what makes me different: Last year I retired from coaching and expanded my business into, a self-development blog for men.
I began coaching guys locally in 2007 and in 2008 began my business which was known as "Practical Pick Up".
I found the community in 2005 and got success pretty quickly. Happy to be back on Seddit doing another AMA. Thanks for the great turn out and great questions guys. UPDATE: Going to go ahead and close this out.